Posted in FB on 24 Jan 2026.
今天，我想和大家分享三个真实的故事。
第一个故事：初心前几天醒来，我收到了一封电子邮件。
写电邮给我的是一位女士顾客，我们从未见过面。
早在 2020 年，她刚经历离婚，独自带着孩子，生活非常辛苦。那时她准备搬进新的公寓，希望我能帮她看看风水。由于当时工作繁忙，我只能提供线上风水咨询，她也欣然接受。
这些年来，她一直通过线上方式与我联系，而我们始终未曾谋面。
从这封邮件中，我得知在我的协助之下，她的生活确实一步一步有所改善。那一刻，我心中非常欣慰。
每一次收到这样的反馈，都像是给我打了一剂强心针，提醒我：我走在对的路上。
我时常提醒自己要守住初心——
君子爱财，取之有道。
做我该做的事，分享我所懂的玄学知识去协助他人，
不贪财、不吓唬人，
反而要鼓励那些正在走低运的人，给他们一个正确的方向。
尽力而为，光明磊落，心安理得，就足够了。
我也常以《易经》提醒自己。
在八八六十四卦中，唯一六爻皆吉的卦，是“谦卦”。
谦卦为 坤上艮下——
山，本应高耸，却甘愿处于大地之下，
这正是“谦虚”的真正含义。
它提醒我们：
一个人若要长久不败，必须一生保持谦卑。
不需要用财富、权力或地位来证明自己有多成功。
越是成功的人，越要低调谦逊。
否则，身边奉承之声越多，人便越容易自高自大、目中无人，
最终反而被人拉下。
这样的例子，其实并不少见。
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第二个故事：顺势而为前一阵子，有一对夫妻请我到他们家看风水。
一进屋，我就发现他们把家里弄得非常阴暗。
他们告诉我，最近心情极度低落——
无论多努力、打几份工，都看不到成果，
做什么都提不起劲。
他们经营的素食餐厅，刚开始生意很好，
但后来却一落千丈。
我查看他们的生辰八字后发现：
两人的命格都非常需要“火”。
我告诉他们：
最好的火，不是人造的，
而是来自大自然的太阳之火。
家里一定要明亮，
尤其要让早上的朝阳照进来，
多晒朝阳之火。
他们听从了建议。
后来，他们找到了新的店铺，我也再为他们调整了新餐厅的风水。
不久之后，他们明显感觉到：
整个人的状态，与以前完全不同了。新素食餐厅的生意比之前的好很多，工作的机会也多了，事情也顺了。
而我，也为此感到由衷的欣慰。
命理并不是迷信，
而是老祖宗几千年来留下的伟大智慧。
我们只是了解自己的命，知道哪一种自然能量最适合自己，然后顺势而行。
如果你真正读懂《易经》，
就会明白它的核心思想——
“一阴一阳之谓道”。
若你占得的是 豫卦（喜悦之卦），
《易经》会提醒你：
要适可而止，小心乐极生悲。
若你占得的是 坎卦（艰难之卦），
《易经》则教你：
要在困境中学习，
守住 元、亨、利、贞，
因此坎卦又称“习坎”——
在困难中修炼自己，事情终会否极泰来。
这，正是老祖宗的智慧。
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第三个故事：时运到了，就要冲我认识一位顾客的家人已有十多年。
这位顾客是一名土木工程师。
他创业成立公司时，我曾为他看过风水。
他的八字本命为 己阴土，
但金气过强，
土的力量几乎都被拿去生金，
导致土被消耗，形成轻土命。
因此，他非常需要：
火来生土，同时加强土的力量。
老话说得好：
水能载舟，亦能覆舟。
任何五行，过多或过少，都会出问题。
关键在于——平衡。
由于他从事建筑工程，
在风水设计上，我特别强调 火与土的运用。
他也一直照着去做。
前几年，由于火与土的力量尚未到位，
他的事业进展并不算顺利。
我当时告诉他不用担心，
因为火的力量即将到来——
尤其是 2025 蛇年属火，
以及 2026、2027 年的赤马红羊年。
最近我再回去帮他看风水时，
他告诉我：
他已成功获得一项重要工程，
并有机会参与地铁建设项目。
我对他说：
人生，就像一场足球赛。
有时你是前锋，
有时你守门，
有时你是后卫。
而在这两年，
你必须当那个冲锋的前锋。
老祖宗早就告诉我们——
道法自然。
这不是迷信。
就好比水从山上流下来，
你顺流而下，自然轻松；
若你执意逆水而行，
再大的意志，也会异常辛苦。
所以，我们要做的，
不是和命运对抗，
而是了解自己的命，顺势而为。
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Today, I would like to share three real-life stories.
Story One: Staying True to One’s初心 (Original Intention)A few days ago, I woke up to an email from a female client whom I have never met in person.
Back in 2020, she had just gone through a divorce and was raising her child alone. Life was tough. She planned to move into a new apartment and contacted me for Feng Shui advice. At that time, I was extremely busy, so I offered only online Feng Shui consultation, which she gladly accepted.
Over the years, she continued consulting me online. We have never met, yet from her email, I could clearly feel the changes in her life.
Knowing that my guidance had helped her improve her situation deeply comforted me.
Every such message feels like a shot of encouragement, reminding me that I am walking the right path.
I constantly remind myself:
A gentleman loves wealth, but earns it the right way.
I do what I should do—
sharing metaphysical knowledge to help others,
not driven by greed,
not frightening people for profit,
but encouraging those going through difficult times,
giving them direction and hope.
As long as I act with integrity and a clear conscience, that is enough.
I often reflect on the I Ching.
Among the 64 hexagrams, the only one with all six auspicious lines is Qian (Humility).
In this hexagram, the mountain willingly stays beneath the earth—
a powerful symbol of humility.
It teaches us that:
To remain undefeated in life, one must always stay humble.
There is no need to prove success through wealth, power, or status.
Ironically, the more successful one becomes, the more important humility is.
Those surrounded by flattery often lose themselves,
becoming arrogant and detached—
and eventually, they fall.
Such examples are not hard to find.
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Story Two: Following Nature’s FlowSome time ago, a couple invited me to assess their home.
The moment I entered, I noticed how dark the house was.
They shared that they had been feeling extremely depressed—
working multiple jobs yet seeing no results,
losing motivation in everything they did.
Their vegetarian restaurant had started well but was now struggling badly.
After analyzing their birth charts, I discovered that both of them strongly needed the Fire element.
I told them:
The best Fire does not come from man-made sources,
but from the sun.
Their home must be bright,
especially allowing morning sunlight to enter.
They followed my advice.
Later, they relocated to a new shop, where I further enhanced the Feng Shui.
Soon after, they told me they truly felt different—
mentally, emotionally, and energetically.
This again reminded me:
Metaphysics is not superstition.
It is ancient wisdom passed down through thousands of years.
We simply learn our nature, understand which natural energies benefit us most, and move with the flow.
At its core, the I Ching teaches:
“One yin and one yang constitute the Dao.”
If one receives the Hexagram of Joy, it reminds us to exercise moderation.
Too much happiness can lead to misfortune.
If one receives the Hexagram of Hardship (Kan), it teaches perseverance, integrity, and learning through adversity—
because only then can misfortune transform into blessings.
This is the wisdom of our ancestors.
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Story Three: When the Time Comes, Move ForwardI have known one client’s family for over ten years.
He is a civil engineer.
When he founded his company, I advised him on Feng Shui.
His birth element is Yin Earth, but with very strong Metal energy.
His Earth was being drained to produce Metal, resulting in a weak Earth constitution.
What he needed was Fire to generate Earth, and stronger Earth support.
As the saying goes:
Water can carry a boat, but it can also overturn it.
Balance is everything.
Also, he works in construction, I emphasized the use of Fire and Earth elements in his Feng Shui design. He followed it consistently.
In earlier years, when these elements were not yet strong, his career faced obstacles.
I reassured him that the Fire energy was coming—
especially in 2025 (Fire Snake year) and 2026–2027, the Red Horse and Red Goat years.
Recently, when I reviewed his Feng Shui again,
he shared good news:
he had secured a major project and may participate in LRT construction.
I told him:
Life is like a football match.
Sometimes you are a striker,
sometimes a goalkeeper,
sometimes a defender.
And in these two years—
it is time for you to charge forward.
Our ancestors taught us long ago:
Follow nature.
This is not superstition.
Just like water flows downhill—
if you move with it, life feels effortless.
If you insist on going against it, no matter how strong your will, it will be exhausting.
Therefore, our role is not to fight fate,
but to understand it—and move with the current.
